can i get the cops involved or get a court order or restraining order?

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Depending on the state that you live in, you may be able to get a restraining order. In my state they did away from restraining orders. A protection from abuse order might be appropriate. Even asking the cops to tell her not to contact you anymore might be appropriate. There is always harassment charges also. In my state you can also file a trespassing document that would be served to her saying that if she came on your property it would be a violation and she could be arrested. You do have options, but it depends on how harsh you want to be to her. Good luck!
 
i dumoed a close friend who got insecure and possessive and became a pest everytime i refused to give time.
after i dumped her. she still kept trying to get one more chance. i think she e-mailed me atleast 8 times the day i dumped her asking me to talk things out and why i decided to dump her. she also came to my place the day i dumped her and called 2-3 times, but i did not open the door.
then, a month later i got an apology letter. and just because i said thank you but i do not want to be friends, she again e-mailed me a few times saying if there is any chance and called me twice.
 
Looking at your situation, I think what you and your ex-girlfriend need most is not cops or court order but a counsellor (psychologist).

This is an issue about feeling, about a person who cannot let go. A counsellor is needed to advise both parties how to handle that situation in a matured manner.

Emotional problem can get nasty if not handled properly. So, please see a counsellor.
 
You can get an Anti harassment Restraining Order. You'll need to go to the Court House to get one. Then you'll need to have her served. Hopefully that'll give you a little peace for a while.
 
It sounds to me like you are not a very nice person period. It does not sound as though you were a very good friend to begin with. She is probably better off with out you in her life. good luck, and God bless
 
You can get an Anti harassment Restraining Order. You'll need to go to the Court House to get one. Then you'll need to have her served. Hopefully that'll give you a little peace for a while.
 
It sounds to me like you are not a very nice person period. It does not sound as though you were a very good friend to begin with. She is probably better off with out you in her life. good luck, and God bless
 
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