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I was very young. I asked a college educated professional if people really did such things asa certain type sex. Asked a female in confidence,quietly, my voice was soft. Did not carry. Shesaid, in a round about way, I thought, She didn't.This was going around the office before I said anything. I said no more re this.. I did not ask this in connection with a promotion, job or anythingcuriosityuriousity. There were promotions at that time.We were not doing what I asked about nor did I say I was.Before the gossip was over, I almost divorced myhusband due to thinking he was lying. about us, sayingwe were doing this. I did some mean things to him.and vice versa. (NOt Vice.. but vice versa.) Would he have gone to jail. Of course not, over anyone else, not me.One lady at one time said "if a person's life is not her own whatis the use in having one.''When I rode the school bus to the end of the line, it was full of other students.We almost divorced. I had health problems whichwere greatly exacerbated. Spent a week in hospital, have a load of dye in my spine. Ten day headachewhen fluid leaked from my spine. Had to quit my job.Blah blah. Did we sue? Are you kidding, we were lucky to be alive, as well as our kids. Did we receive compensation. ARe you kidding? What a joke.Then they took the offensive, best defense, slandered, defamed. Harassed, Church wanted rid of us any way.Talk about a nightmare.Any way. Lot can be said about learning to knitor crochet in the soops office, can't it, or after schoolwhen you ride the bus home and cannot stay.Those are the people who get the raises, and thepromotions, and the supervisor jobs. Sour grapes. Better believe it. Then they take thisout and refine it when they need to do so to keepyou down. Story of my life. Few women can standup to this when they are pretty much alone except for husband and kids. Few husbands can stand up to this.Lucky to be alive/ God's providence, especially whenthey start lying and saying you were a bad influence.Liars, one and all. I was, we were no bad influenceany where. I also had NO SEX OF ANY SORTPRIOR TO MARRIAGE..I was not one. One supervisor would not let me workfor her. She had a steno or two or three. Theyspent time in her office, may have taught them toknit or crochet. I was not included in this, nordid I have copies of tests. If one was given to me,it must have been with IOC's and I did not know.People took tests, promoted, transferred. Not I. Notfor a long time. Our private life did not change.One sooper went around talking about ' deservingpeople.' I am not a fool.This woman had a daughter whowent to hs with me. Reminded me of home ec whenthey had after school meetings to which I could notgo. I was intelligent. I made good grades. I did not cheat and did not have any inside info on tests. Never.I think I may have deserved better grades because itwas assumed I had some sort of irregular sex, therefore I did not get the grades I deserved. I know of at least two. Water under the bridge,I know. The lies were so absurd, I did not get them. Never one toconnect things, never one to obsess. So. I hadmy reputation smeared. Cheated. Cheated out ofevery thing then had to work with some of the ones who did it. Tried to ruin my reputation.Years later, I returned to college. Same agencystalked me to the college, slandering, threatening.I was actually assaulted and battered outside the office for which I worked due to asking this question.Battered. Once with intent to rape I believe. Onemugging. I know it was connected. Can any one identify with this.Not only that, but when your marriagebreaks up, you will not be able to find a decent man. I could not get a jobwhen this was done to me any where else, then when I divorced, I could not get a real job any where. Their attorneystalked me all over, blocking me from working. Did not want people to known what his clients and friends did to me.It was all lies. No drugs involved, at all.