I know this sounds like the STUPIDEST question in the world (and I'll admit it probably really is), but I mean it. Kathy Neville, a friend of mine who died in a car accident in April 2007 is logging on and chatting with me saying God sent her to help me and allowed her to log into IM (this has only happened about twice), but I'm wondering because nobody but her husband Martin himself knew her password, and I really don't think he would be so vain as to play a joke like this...