Me and my b/f have been together for almost 4 years but around last october he stopped having sex with me, so for the last year almost i wait until hes asleep and do it but i know hes acting like hes asleep but anyways im sick of doing that so im just wondering can there be anything with out sex.. oh btw he either stopped initiating anything with me cause i gained weight or cause of me cheating on him last year and he cant get over it i just really need some good advice...