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Brother in-law spanked me and threatens me.?
- Thread starter Cher
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I posted this last night-
A few hours ago after dinner we were cleaning up, well I was because I was trying to be nice (seriously i just wanted to help) and my sister kept asking me to do things that she was fully capable of doing, but she just didnt want to get up. I kept doing what she wanted and then her husband said he had some work to do outside so I needed to do the rest of the kitchen. Well that pissed me off because I already helped more than usual and it was only 5 he had 4 more hours of daylight to fix the fence.
I got mad at starting fighting back well he's alot bigger than me and I always listen to him because he kinda scares me when he yells.
My sister was watching tv and doing nothing. I kept fighting back until he said "if u say one more word your gonna get it" Well I yelled back at him because I didn't think he'd do anything.
He grabbed my arm and took me into the guest room. He put me over his lap and spanked me. I don't think my sister knew because she ended up going outside before he took me to the room.
I'm 14 and he's 24. Should I tell my sister he did that or just ignore it?
I didn't mean to make him mad it just wasn't fair that I had to do it all.
Now I'm really scared to go back downstairs or to face him. I apologized a million times, but he kept spanking me until i stopped fighint back.
Some were asking if they were my legal guardians, and no they are not. I'm just staying at they're house while my parents are on vacation.
This morning I finished breakfast early so I put my plate in the dishwasher and went to get dressed. He told me I needed to wait for everyone to be done so I could help with dishes. (Which was only 2 pans and a bowl that could go into the dishwasher)
They weren't even close to being done so i went upstairs and got dressed because I had time. When i walked down and got a drink he was by the fridge and told me that I'd pay for it later.
Now I'm really scared and I dont want him to spank me again. I told my Aunt and she said if it happens again to call my mom. I will, but I dont want to get spanked still and then call my mom. It's not fair he can't hit me, but I cant stand up to him at all. He's just being a jerk when I'm not even doing anything wrong! I slammed my door shut and he started yelling at me. My sister thinks all he's doing is 'straightening me out' by yelling, she doesnt know he spanked me and I'm scared to tell her.
What do I do to keep him from spanking me tonight? I cant go anywhere.
A few hours ago after dinner we were cleaning up, well I was because I was trying to be nice (seriously i just wanted to help) and my sister kept asking me to do things that she was fully capable of doing, but she just didnt want to get up. I kept doing what she wanted and then her husband said he had some work to do outside so I needed to do the rest of the kitchen. Well that pissed me off because I already helped more than usual and it was only 5 he had 4 more hours of daylight to fix the fence.
I got mad at starting fighting back well he's alot bigger than me and I always listen to him because he kinda scares me when he yells.
My sister was watching tv and doing nothing. I kept fighting back until he said "if u say one more word your gonna get it" Well I yelled back at him because I didn't think he'd do anything.
He grabbed my arm and took me into the guest room. He put me over his lap and spanked me. I don't think my sister knew because she ended up going outside before he took me to the room.
I'm 14 and he's 24. Should I tell my sister he did that or just ignore it?
I didn't mean to make him mad it just wasn't fair that I had to do it all.
Now I'm really scared to go back downstairs or to face him. I apologized a million times, but he kept spanking me until i stopped fighint back.
Some were asking if they were my legal guardians, and no they are not. I'm just staying at they're house while my parents are on vacation.
This morning I finished breakfast early so I put my plate in the dishwasher and went to get dressed. He told me I needed to wait for everyone to be done so I could help with dishes. (Which was only 2 pans and a bowl that could go into the dishwasher)
They weren't even close to being done so i went upstairs and got dressed because I had time. When i walked down and got a drink he was by the fridge and told me that I'd pay for it later.
Now I'm really scared and I dont want him to spank me again. I told my Aunt and she said if it happens again to call my mom. I will, but I dont want to get spanked still and then call my mom. It's not fair he can't hit me, but I cant stand up to him at all. He's just being a jerk when I'm not even doing anything wrong! I slammed my door shut and he started yelling at me. My sister thinks all he's doing is 'straightening me out' by yelling, she doesnt know he spanked me and I'm scared to tell her.
What do I do to keep him from spanking me tonight? I cant go anywhere.
live.laugh.love.
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..That's seriously weird and not right at all. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 yrs, so basically my husband! pssshtt! ANYWAYS, I have a 13 year old sister and I could never imagine my boyfriend disciplining her, or spanking her. He has NO right or guardianship to do that. Plus getting spanked at 14 yrs. is wayyy too old. He seems like he's got a lot of problems of his own, maybe controlling? Abusive to others? You really do need to tell your sister, and I'd even call your parents. It has gone too far.
Littlestarxx
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Who the hell is this guy to be spanking u!!!??
his not even ur dad. he seem like a controlling psychopath, your aunt is right u should tell ur parents. Tell your sister to get off her butt and tell her husband to stop hitting you..most people would consider it to be physical abuse.
Your cleaning up and evreything..what is his problem..seriously if i were u, and this maniac spanked me like, i was some sort of rag doll, my fist would connect with his cheek.
Make sure you tell ur parents, ur brother in law is acting like some sort of chief of the household..jheez, how old are you, 5?.
You should go and live with ur aunt, or stay at a friend's. till ur parents get back, this loser has no justification of spanking u.
good luck xxx
his not even ur dad. he seem like a controlling psychopath, your aunt is right u should tell ur parents. Tell your sister to get off her butt and tell her husband to stop hitting you..most people would consider it to be physical abuse.
Your cleaning up and evreything..what is his problem..seriously if i were u, and this maniac spanked me like, i was some sort of rag doll, my fist would connect with his cheek.
Make sure you tell ur parents, ur brother in law is acting like some sort of chief of the household..jheez, how old are you, 5?.
You should go and live with ur aunt, or stay at a friend's. till ur parents get back, this loser has no justification of spanking u.
good luck xxx
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♥Pink_Doll♥
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You are too old to be spanked, and the age difference between you isn't enough to validate him spanking you.
But he is still an adult, he probably had things to do, and you should have still tried to help. You should have listened to him when he asked you to help. He is not your parent, but when your at your sister's house, her and her husband are the ones in charge since you are not an adult.
If he feels like he needed to spank you for disobeying or mouthing off, then so be it. You should have listened. Next time just take the spanking and learn from it to not be like that again.The only thing I can say is to let your sister know, and see what she thinks of the situation. If she agrees with it, then you need to make your decision. Either you go visit your sister still and deal with getting a spanking from him when you disobey, or you don't go visit.
But he is still an adult, he probably had things to do, and you should have still tried to help. You should have listened to him when he asked you to help. He is not your parent, but when your at your sister's house, her and her husband are the ones in charge since you are not an adult.
If he feels like he needed to spank you for disobeying or mouthing off, then so be it. You should have listened. Next time just take the spanking and learn from it to not be like that again.The only thing I can say is to let your sister know, and see what she thinks of the situation. If she agrees with it, then you need to make your decision. Either you go visit your sister still and deal with getting a spanking from him when you disobey, or you don't go visit.
Call your parents (first)and tell them your story and also ask them to talk to your sister about it. If that sob tries to even touch you again call 911!! No one ( not even your parents) have the right to hit you. God I am so pissed!!! Please dont just do nothing, no one can touch you..