Boyfriend takes the defensive as soon as I try to discuss something.?

[kayaksrcool]

I have a hard time discussing something I am upset about with my boyfriend. I explain in pleasant tone and ask questions but my boyfriend gets mad and takes the defensive as if I am making the problem his fault automatically and goes off. I like to discuss things civilly but he gets angry about it so fast. Anything advice?

 

[Fleek]

Don't dump him or you won't ever get another boyfriend again.

 

[musicluvrsammi]

break up with him

 

[Fleek]

Don't dump him or you won't ever get another boyfriend again.

 

[jim h]

he has temper issues. If you cannot handle men with tempers, stop dating them on the first sign. It can only get worse -- at best: manageable.