A quick synopsis. A friend of mine if female and is absolutely gorgeous. She turns heads"trophy girl". with and without makeup.
Her boyfriend is distant with her. To my knowledge they have broken up and gotten back together 3 times already. Now they rarely have deep conversations, and he treats her like his maid and babysitter for his kid, sometimes as an errand girl. There are times where I know she just wants someone to talk too and vent in this weird roller coaster relationship. I have tried to be there for her because I feel she needs someone to talk too. I don't like seeing her emotionally unstable when things get crazy.
As I mentioned earlier the communication is not there. He rarely calls her, only when he needs something he will call her. Well today her boyfriend who was at work never called her from 9am until 9.45 pm. So towards the evening"sunset" she didn't want to sit at home waiting for his call"if he does call her" and waste the night. So we had dinner at TGIFs. Towards the end of dinner he messages her and asks her where she is. She tells him and he gets all crazy, cause she had dinner with a guy friend.
Is it just me or is this guy missing marbles in his head? One he doesn't call her. Two he expects her to be at his side when he wants. When she has dinner with a friend he gets all crazy, saying she's cheating. I felt bad that they got into an argument over dinner and jeopardized the relationship. Because I know she loves him. I felt she just needed someone to talk to and vent cause the past of couple of weeks it has been rough for her.
Now I'm wondering she didn'tnt have to tell him I was with her, but she's a honest girl. Honest girls are hard to come across and he should have commended for her honesty. Instead of getting crazy.
In the past my girlfriends at time would go to dinner with another friend or friends, and I would be at home either playing video games or at the gym. I wouldn't react all possessive and accuse her cheating. You're only going to make yourself loose your mind and start to be suspicious on everything she does.
That's the part I having difficulty accepting your girlfriend told the truth and he got crazy. Is he aware she could have lied but she didn't.
Sometimes I wonder if he views her just as a trophy girl. A trophy girl who cleans and babysits children, does errands, etc.
Or did she tell him that another guy was with her to see how he reacts. If he get's all crazy then she knows he still has feelings for her and doesn't veiw her as a trophy girl?
What makes me think her boyfriend is not all there is He needs to be told I'm having dinner with another guy. Then he show feelings of concern. Is it just me or does this guy view his girlfriend as a trophy girl and nothing else. He wants to keep her around until he or she finds something better.
I know she can do so much better. She turns heads. There was time police officers waited for to walk past them. This is the story one night we ate dinner. Then we walked from the restaurant to a grocery store at the other end of the mall. During the walk we pasted a subway restaurant in the restaurant. 8 police officers were eating inside one of 8 seen her and said something to remaining 7. After we bought snacks from the grocery we walked back to where the cars were parked. So we had to past the subway with all the police officers. After we took corner all the police officers were outside just waiting for her to walk past. As we neared the officers I noticing the officers eyes sizing her up. I told her see what you did. You made the police wait for you to walkpast them again instead of getting in the cars are patrolling. At college football games she turns the players head on the field cause we sat near the sideline. I have never in my life have I ever went out with a girl that commands this much male eyes when ever she walks into rooms or just anywhere.. I told her look at what you're capable of doing you have the opportunity to have any guy you want. Just think of them as a buffet and cherry pick the ones you would consider dating until you find the one you really want.
Sometimes I think her boyfriend knows how physically attractive she is. That's why he won't really commit to her. He doesn't want his heart broken because maybe in his eyes this girl is capable of getting so much attention from other guys that eventually she going to find someone that will out do him. Maybe his eyes he's knows she going to find a better guy and she leaving him is inevitable. That's why he has these walls set up and is being distant.
Her boyfriend is distant with her. To my knowledge they have broken up and gotten back together 3 times already. Now they rarely have deep conversations, and he treats her like his maid and babysitter for his kid, sometimes as an errand girl. There are times where I know she just wants someone to talk too and vent in this weird roller coaster relationship. I have tried to be there for her because I feel she needs someone to talk too. I don't like seeing her emotionally unstable when things get crazy.
As I mentioned earlier the communication is not there. He rarely calls her, only when he needs something he will call her. Well today her boyfriend who was at work never called her from 9am until 9.45 pm. So towards the evening"sunset" she didn't want to sit at home waiting for his call"if he does call her" and waste the night. So we had dinner at TGIFs. Towards the end of dinner he messages her and asks her where she is. She tells him and he gets all crazy, cause she had dinner with a guy friend.
Is it just me or is this guy missing marbles in his head? One he doesn't call her. Two he expects her to be at his side when he wants. When she has dinner with a friend he gets all crazy, saying she's cheating. I felt bad that they got into an argument over dinner and jeopardized the relationship. Because I know she loves him. I felt she just needed someone to talk to and vent cause the past of couple of weeks it has been rough for her.
Now I'm wondering she didn'tnt have to tell him I was with her, but she's a honest girl. Honest girls are hard to come across and he should have commended for her honesty. Instead of getting crazy.
In the past my girlfriends at time would go to dinner with another friend or friends, and I would be at home either playing video games or at the gym. I wouldn't react all possessive and accuse her cheating. You're only going to make yourself loose your mind and start to be suspicious on everything she does.
That's the part I having difficulty accepting your girlfriend told the truth and he got crazy. Is he aware she could have lied but she didn't.
Sometimes I wonder if he views her just as a trophy girl. A trophy girl who cleans and babysits children, does errands, etc.
Or did she tell him that another guy was with her to see how he reacts. If he get's all crazy then she knows he still has feelings for her and doesn't veiw her as a trophy girl?
What makes me think her boyfriend is not all there is He needs to be told I'm having dinner with another guy. Then he show feelings of concern. Is it just me or does this guy view his girlfriend as a trophy girl and nothing else. He wants to keep her around until he or she finds something better.
I know she can do so much better. She turns heads. There was time police officers waited for to walk past them. This is the story one night we ate dinner. Then we walked from the restaurant to a grocery store at the other end of the mall. During the walk we pasted a subway restaurant in the restaurant. 8 police officers were eating inside one of 8 seen her and said something to remaining 7. After we bought snacks from the grocery we walked back to where the cars were parked. So we had to past the subway with all the police officers. After we took corner all the police officers were outside just waiting for her to walk past. As we neared the officers I noticing the officers eyes sizing her up. I told her see what you did. You made the police wait for you to walkpast them again instead of getting in the cars are patrolling. At college football games she turns the players head on the field cause we sat near the sideline. I have never in my life have I ever went out with a girl that commands this much male eyes when ever she walks into rooms or just anywhere.. I told her look at what you're capable of doing you have the opportunity to have any guy you want. Just think of them as a buffet and cherry pick the ones you would consider dating until you find the one you really want.
Sometimes I think her boyfriend knows how physically attractive she is. That's why he won't really commit to her. He doesn't want his heart broken because maybe in his eyes this girl is capable of getting so much attention from other guys that eventually she going to find someone that will out do him. Maybe his eyes he's knows she going to find a better guy and she leaving him is inevitable. That's why he has these walls set up and is being distant.