Kay this is going to be long, and I apologize for it.
Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year as of today,
Yesterday was my birthday and he bought me a gold promise ring with 10 diamond chips.
I feel like I don't deserve it though, And that's making me extremely sad.
Me and my boyfriend get into argument that get extremely huge!
My boyfriend is very depressed because of things that have happened to him and his family that would put a tole on someone.
He's a very jealous person, But yet so am I so we make it work.
We only really like each others company anymore, So we don't talk to many people anymore.
Sides everyone around here will back stab you or just isn't a true friend anymore.
When me and him get into arguments,
He will put me down saying things like "I'm sorry I'm not PERFECT like you, I'm sorry I'm stupid" and things along the line of that.
Or he will keep bugging me and holding onto me and won't let go of me when I tell him to,
I had to hit him with my elbow in the stomach to get out of his grasp because he wouldn't let go of me and I was starting to get really sore from his hands holding onto me.
He's called me a name that I just want to break down from, Because I've been called it by so many people and I don't even understand why people say it. Because they don't actually know me and can't say that I am.
When he get's mad he yells , I try to tell him to quiet down but all he does is get madder because I say it and if i say "Will you please just stop"
He'll mock me and be a dick.
He embarrasses me so much when he acts like this out in public.
We don't argue a lot, it's rare sometimes to argue.
I feel like I'm not good enough for him and I'm extremely scared that he's going to leave me for someone else.
He tells me he wants to marry me, He is the sweetest most gentle person I know and I love him with every bit of my heart.
He says he would do anything for me and that if something every happened between us he would be devastated and would probably kill himself. And that scares me.
We've been threw a lot this past year, and when I mean a lot , I mean ..losing his best friend because his best friend took advantage of me when i was extremely drunk, I almost died that night that's how drunk I was.
So here's my questions.
How can i show him how much he means to me and that this past year all the bullshit is behind us?
How do I learn to trust him and myself?
and how can we stop arguing so much?
I"M SO SORRY IT WAS SO LONG.
I'm looking for a honest anwser,
not the jerk who said the mental thinger.
Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year as of today,
Yesterday was my birthday and he bought me a gold promise ring with 10 diamond chips.
I feel like I don't deserve it though, And that's making me extremely sad.
Me and my boyfriend get into argument that get extremely huge!
My boyfriend is very depressed because of things that have happened to him and his family that would put a tole on someone.
He's a very jealous person, But yet so am I so we make it work.
We only really like each others company anymore, So we don't talk to many people anymore.
Sides everyone around here will back stab you or just isn't a true friend anymore.
When me and him get into arguments,
He will put me down saying things like "I'm sorry I'm not PERFECT like you, I'm sorry I'm stupid" and things along the line of that.
Or he will keep bugging me and holding onto me and won't let go of me when I tell him to,
I had to hit him with my elbow in the stomach to get out of his grasp because he wouldn't let go of me and I was starting to get really sore from his hands holding onto me.
He's called me a name that I just want to break down from, Because I've been called it by so many people and I don't even understand why people say it. Because they don't actually know me and can't say that I am.
When he get's mad he yells , I try to tell him to quiet down but all he does is get madder because I say it and if i say "Will you please just stop"
He'll mock me and be a dick.
He embarrasses me so much when he acts like this out in public.
We don't argue a lot, it's rare sometimes to argue.
I feel like I'm not good enough for him and I'm extremely scared that he's going to leave me for someone else.
He tells me he wants to marry me, He is the sweetest most gentle person I know and I love him with every bit of my heart.
He says he would do anything for me and that if something every happened between us he would be devastated and would probably kill himself. And that scares me.
We've been threw a lot this past year, and when I mean a lot , I mean ..losing his best friend because his best friend took advantage of me when i was extremely drunk, I almost died that night that's how drunk I was.
So here's my questions.
How can i show him how much he means to me and that this past year all the bullshit is behind us?
How do I learn to trust him and myself?
and how can we stop arguing so much?
I"M SO SORRY IT WAS SO LONG.
I'm looking for a honest anwser,
not the jerk who said the mental thinger.