Lisa Thompson
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My boyfriend has a fetish for having sex with me every time that I wear my bikinis or swimsuits, most of my bikinis and monokinis have side ties but he insists on pulling the bottoms aside and making love to me up the leg of the garment.
When I do wear the bikinis and swimsuits on holidays at the beach/pool and in the past when we have gone to the local open air pool in the summer or gone to the coast for the day and have obviously been seen by other men in the bikini etc, it seems to really get him going and the sex is fast and furious there is never any foreplay, he will just grab me pull the bikini or swimsuit bottoms aside and have sex, sometimes he just does it from behind.
He gets cross if I try to take the bikini or swimsuit off he has had sex with me, when I have taken it off, he has and has actually taken the bikini or swimsuit and masturbated on it, rather than having sex with me. He will equally do this if he discovers that I have worn a bikini or swimsuit when he wasn't there to see me in it.
It seems to turn him hugely for me to be wearing a bikini or a swimsuit far more than the sexiest lingerie as I can walk around in our flat in a lacy bra and thong, and have little or no effect on him.
Lately he wants me to wear a bikini or swimsuit as underwear so he gets to do it more.
As a whole I am not actually sure that it is me or the bikini/swimsuit that he wants, as he seems to become totally selfish and as soon as he is spent the sex is over. I also cannot understand why he has to go up the leg of the bikini etc, when he could easily pull the strings loose and let it fall away.
I spoke to a friend about this and this is what she advised me to.
She reckons I should put a stop to him doing this
I should stop wearing bikinis and swimsuits for a time and get one of the athletic types that he cannot get to me up the leg of it.
When I do go back to wearing a bikini or swimsuit not allow him to do this in the NEW swimwear
Lastly to get rid of my current bikinis and swimsuits that he has already had sex with me wearing, as she says he has now got it into his head that when I wear these it is his right to have sex with me in them.
Should I be concerned about this and what would you advise me to do?
When I do wear the bikinis and swimsuits on holidays at the beach/pool and in the past when we have gone to the local open air pool in the summer or gone to the coast for the day and have obviously been seen by other men in the bikini etc, it seems to really get him going and the sex is fast and furious there is never any foreplay, he will just grab me pull the bikini or swimsuit bottoms aside and have sex, sometimes he just does it from behind.
He gets cross if I try to take the bikini or swimsuit off he has had sex with me, when I have taken it off, he has and has actually taken the bikini or swimsuit and masturbated on it, rather than having sex with me. He will equally do this if he discovers that I have worn a bikini or swimsuit when he wasn't there to see me in it.
It seems to turn him hugely for me to be wearing a bikini or a swimsuit far more than the sexiest lingerie as I can walk around in our flat in a lacy bra and thong, and have little or no effect on him.
Lately he wants me to wear a bikini or swimsuit as underwear so he gets to do it more.
As a whole I am not actually sure that it is me or the bikini/swimsuit that he wants, as he seems to become totally selfish and as soon as he is spent the sex is over. I also cannot understand why he has to go up the leg of the bikini etc, when he could easily pull the strings loose and let it fall away.
I spoke to a friend about this and this is what she advised me to.
She reckons I should put a stop to him doing this
I should stop wearing bikinis and swimsuits for a time and get one of the athletic types that he cannot get to me up the leg of it.
When I do go back to wearing a bikini or swimsuit not allow him to do this in the NEW swimwear
Lastly to get rid of my current bikinis and swimsuits that he has already had sex with me wearing, as she says he has now got it into his head that when I wear these it is his right to have sex with me in them.
Should I be concerned about this and what would you advise me to do?