I'm a virgin but I suffered sexual abuse as a child. I alluded to this with my boyfriend to explain why I've been unable to have sex with him yet, and he made a joke about how he could 'just rape me'. This made me uneasy the first time he said it, but I brushed it off as a joke - later on, when we were talking online, he made a similar joke about how if it 'went on too long' (without sex) he would 'have to rape (me)'.
I've been going out with him for several months and he's been sweet and understanding, a good guy, but it was only the last time I saw him that he said these things - and now I'm scared. Does anyone have any suggestions? I don't think I am, but is it possible i'm over-reacting? Please help.
I've been going out with him for several months and he's been sweet and understanding, a good guy, but it was only the last time I saw him that he said these things - and now I'm scared. Does anyone have any suggestions? I don't think I am, but is it possible i'm over-reacting? Please help.