my boyfriend in jail, i use to be spontaneous and put i love you on the envelopes in different languages, write him poems about our past experiences, tell him funny jokes about things we use to do together, he told me these things cheered him up but i now think i have over done it by using these in every letter, i also sometimes send him surprise cards, i want to cheer him up and let him know him i love him - how could i do this?