So my bf and I are having a baby soon this will be his 3 child we think one may or may not be his due to his ex cheating on him but the other day he tells me he still loves his ex that he had his first child with, and that he will always have feelings for her just like he will always have feelings for me weather we stay together or not. Should this bother me? I want him to be here for my child and not worry about a child that he is never going to see because she wont let him, because of him up and leaving her cause he was bad on drugs. I'm feel like im being selfish but at the same time I feel that its not fair for my child that is going to be born in a month and a half. Suggestions?