Being chatted up online: Whats the politest rejection?

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I play poker online, and my picture pops up as the player (obviously). When I first started playing, people gave me compliments, I liked it. But now I'm getting tired of it. I feel like I can't play without being chatted up, and sometimes harassed. I don't like leaving the room because normally by then I've figured out the players play patterns.

So, when people start with them, they just say hi. And I don't want to be rude, so I say hi back. And then they ask when I live, and I just say the country. Then they ask my age. I don't feel comfortable answering that, and sometimes I'll say '21' or '20's' or 'Sorry, I don't give out info like that'. And then they start chatting me up, saying I'm pretty and so on. And then sometimes I have guys who seem to be in competition to 'wooo' me. Like yesterday the guy told the other guy to leave me alone cause I was his.

Uhh, I don't think so.

So, is it best I completely ignore it when they say 'Hi' so I'm not in that position?

Or, do I answer, and then say "I don't give out that infor"...
or what?

What is the politest rejection? What would you prefer if you were on the receiving end?
 
Yeah, I just wouldn't say hi back. Your there to play poker not to be chatted up and if it stops you being chatted up then just don't talk to them.
I get random people adding me on msn all the time and I don't know who they are or where they get my addy from so I've just started blocking and deleting them because they're only interested in one thing - once they find out I won't send them pics or go on webcam they bugger off and it's a complete waste of time and really quite frustrating.

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