I'm 20 and I have been such a lazy piece of crap for 3 months after losing my job and falling into depression induced World of Warcraft coma. i stopped playing and i could care less about it now. I recently re-enrolled in college, found a great job at a health-food store and for some reason my 3 year relationship with my girlfriend is getting worse due to school , work, and the initial lack of money cause i just started my job. I love her with all my heart, we been through so much shit together. My dad has always been distant and let me do my own thing but he has never taught me what a father needs to teach his son or rather shown me how to be a real man. I guess I want to know what it is to be a man, make my girlfriend see that i am serious about my life, and eventually find and do what makes me happy.