Been married 12 years, husband no longer wants to have sex, never initiates,...

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...should I have an affair? I have already addressed this with him and he just closes up. I think he has had an encounter in the past with a man. I have often thought he is gay. He won;t have sex with me and NEVER initiates. I am always thinking about it. I am 35 he 48. I am in my prime and think about sex alot. Should I have an affair? I don;t even know how to find someone for that. Counseling is out, talking has already occurred. I don't know what to do.
 
You need to find out why he won't do it. Tell him you can't deal with this situation anymore and you need the REAL reason. Tell him you won't judge him, won't yell or freak out, and that you just need to know the real answer.
 
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