Me and my fiance have been together for 2 years, and we have a 3 month old.
When we first started dating, it was like a romance novel, immediately we knew we were done with dating and this was it. We have spent almost every night together since then. Not only do I love him to death, but he is my best friend, and vice versa. I know this because we talk about it. We have not problems relationship-wise. We both adore our son, we work on being good parents, we laugh, we go out. we have fun, we cuddle. Up until I was about 5 mnth pregnant, we couldnt go a day without having sex.
In my second timester however, my pregnancy got complicated, and we had to stop having sex, which was hard.
But then things cleared up and the DR gave us the go ahead, but things did not resume.
Which I understand... not wanting to have some sort of emergency after the pregnancy was already complicated, that and me being in pain alot.
I thought after I had the baby, we would have sex more, but he is 3 months now, and we have had sex 4 times.
He had gained around 30 pounds, and I am still loosing the baby weight, ( i also had a c-section.) and before the baby was born he told me he has zero sex drive and thought he should get checked out. But never did. I miss my man! I dont know how to get things re-started in the bedroom! And im really quite anti-confrontational... i dont know if i should talk to him about this without sounding stupid...
"hes not attracted to you anymore...for whatever reason"
thats what im terrified of.
I AM 100 PERCENT SURE he is being faithful. We are always together and i KNOW he would never do that to me.
I have never doubted that.
It doesnt help that he struggles with depression off and on (has for years) has gained alot of weight in a small time, and we are both sleep deprived with baby.
When we first started dating, it was like a romance novel, immediately we knew we were done with dating and this was it. We have spent almost every night together since then. Not only do I love him to death, but he is my best friend, and vice versa. I know this because we talk about it. We have not problems relationship-wise. We both adore our son, we work on being good parents, we laugh, we go out. we have fun, we cuddle. Up until I was about 5 mnth pregnant, we couldnt go a day without having sex.
In my second timester however, my pregnancy got complicated, and we had to stop having sex, which was hard.
But then things cleared up and the DR gave us the go ahead, but things did not resume.
Which I understand... not wanting to have some sort of emergency after the pregnancy was already complicated, that and me being in pain alot.
I thought after I had the baby, we would have sex more, but he is 3 months now, and we have had sex 4 times.
He had gained around 30 pounds, and I am still loosing the baby weight, ( i also had a c-section.) and before the baby was born he told me he has zero sex drive and thought he should get checked out. But never did. I miss my man! I dont know how to get things re-started in the bedroom! And im really quite anti-confrontational... i dont know if i should talk to him about this without sounding stupid...
"hes not attracted to you anymore...for whatever reason"
thats what im terrified of.
I AM 100 PERCENT SURE he is being faithful. We are always together and i KNOW he would never do that to me.
I have never doubted that.
It doesnt help that he struggles with depression off and on (has for years) has gained alot of weight in a small time, and we are both sleep deprived with baby.