Awkward text/personal situation..HELP!?

Nikki

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I need hellpppppp!
Okay so basically there is this guy
I do like him and he does like me
Hes always so sweet, but now its just plain confusing.
We talk all the time on text..and i know..you guys are gunna be like "omg text! you guys shouldnt text you should talk in real life..." or something like that...
but its christmas break
and i havent seen him since school and basically like...i go to chicago every christmas break so i dont get to see alot of my friends and right after break he texted me..we were supposed to see each other before i left for break but a bunch of things happened and it didnt work out.. so yeah he texted me and basically asked me out
and see... i thought we had then agreed to wait until i got back to like..make it official or anything
but now..its like 20 days after he asked me that question...he asked me over text because he said he was curious and didnt want to wait..
its 20 days after that and we text each other constantly. not a day has passed that we havent talked and we just got really close...closer and closer...and now it feels like we are a couple..boyfriend and girlfriend if you know what i mean...
so i asked him..and thats when things got confusing.
i asked him if we were like..official..and he was like well i thought they were... and we talked for a while about it *awkward*
i really dont know what we agreed on! whether we were together..or not..its all so confusing now
he went to sleep so we arent texting anymore...
but we both said that we think it feels official...
but i really have no cluee!
im so mentally confused right now... anyone want to help me...
not only that..but im going to see him at school in less then 3 days.
in band i know we wont talk, we never do, because we are in different sections.
but computer i sit right next to him... i think that it will be super awkward! any tips? any help? please help me!
I really have never been in a situation like this before..with a 'boyfriend' a guy i really like.... and this is confusing me
he never really did..after that day where he texted me...ask me out again..so im not really exactly sure where he picked up that we were official..other than we are really close.
he has said 'i love you' over text. but of course its not like...in love, want to marry you..kind. because i said i love you too...
im only 16 by the way!
every night...before we go to bed...we had these '<3' to the end of our goodnights...and things like that


so you guys should help me if theres any way possible
i hope you understood a little bit of this blabber!
help me (:
please and thank youu
that was really confusing..good luck haha
 
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