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mznell
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Having a positive attitude is very important, both as you enter into the surgery and during your recovery. I would look at it this way: you will need to be very selfish for the next few months as you will need to call on and depend on others, especially for the first 2 weeks.
Hopefully you will wake up from surgery and will realize the pain from stenosis is gone. You will, of course, have plenty of pain from the surgery. Do you know what surgery the surgeon is planning? ALIF, PLIF, TLIF?? Is he using a cage and BMP or harvesting bone from you? Anyway, regardless, you will be recovering from the surgical pain. But you will be able to deal with this pain because you know it will be of limited duration.
Hopefully when you see that the stenotic pain is gone, you will find that you can once again look beyond yourself and concentrate on other relationships and things that are important to you. The fact that you are aware of pain becoming the focus of your life will make it easier for you to be able to move beyond this. The process will not be quick or easy, but you will be able to move forward.
Hopefully you will wake up from surgery and will realize the pain from stenosis is gone. You will, of course, have plenty of pain from the surgery. Do you know what surgery the surgeon is planning? ALIF, PLIF, TLIF?? Is he using a cage and BMP or harvesting bone from you? Anyway, regardless, you will be recovering from the surgical pain. But you will be able to deal with this pain because you know it will be of limited duration.
Hopefully when you see that the stenotic pain is gone, you will find that you can once again look beyond yourself and concentrate on other relationships and things that are important to you. The fact that you are aware of pain becoming the focus of your life will make it easier for you to be able to move beyond this. The process will not be quick or easy, but you will be able to move forward.