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you have with God. And is there any homosexuals who know they are gay but do not participate in sex. Do you believe there is a God? How has he blessed you?
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The homosexual not born, they become as they grow up.
Homosexuality is acquired by the desire to possess what you see in the other and that you lack.
Here a Book Excerpt about male homosexuality
In the psychoanalytic literature, homosexuality has long explained as an attempt to "fix" a deficit of male identity. This theory is not new. In fact, has a long tradition in the psychoanalytic literature. While not all homosexuality can be explained simply as a reparative motivation, for most gay men is a significant motivation. When he meets another gay man is what he himself would be, tends to idealize and romanticize the relationship.
Another writer, Kaplan (1967) saw homosexuality as often rooted in dissatisfaction with own image.
Notes like:
It seems evident that some homosexuals, choose as sexual objects, people who have characteristics -physical, personal, or both- of which they themselves have a deficit… dissatisfaction with the self, the way one is … measure against internal standards of how one would like be ... may be one of the largest roots of some homosexual feelings and behaviors.
Kaplan continues:
Often the homosexual, seeks that quality, he feels he lacks himself, but he sees in others. Therefore, the union gives you, at least momentarily, a sense that now is complete or through identification with the other, that has the same quality.
Kaplan estimates that "the combination of the need for a model, a personal sense of inadequacy and an undifferentiated sexual motivation but powerful" can result in homosexuality. Describe the following model:
The person is dissatisfied in any way with the image itself. he see models are closer to their ego ideal , and engages in sexual intercourse ... The models are chosen as objects of identification and sense of identification or fantasy is increased, and significantly satisfied in sexual intercourse. In a sense, the homosexual has much in common with the narcissist, who has an affair with himself. The homosexual, however, is unable to love himself ... instead he loves his ego ideal (p. 358).
ITripp (1975) defined homosexual behavior as an attempt to "import" admired or desired qualities of the person of the same sex as you are attracted. Gottlieb (1977) also found examples of this motivation gay reparative customers:
Customer: Well, I think is a really original idea but physical contact with someone makes you feel more powerful, more attractive, more focused. There is a tendency to feed your narcissism ... I think the attraction to another person ... it becomes part of you and strengthens it (p. 39).
Book Excerpt:
(pages 34-35)
Reparative Therapy of Male Homosexuality,
by Joseph Nicolosi, Ph.D.
PD: Forgive me for the poor translation
Homosexuality is acquired by the desire to possess what you see in the other and that you lack.
Here a Book Excerpt about male homosexuality
In the psychoanalytic literature, homosexuality has long explained as an attempt to "fix" a deficit of male identity. This theory is not new. In fact, has a long tradition in the psychoanalytic literature. While not all homosexuality can be explained simply as a reparative motivation, for most gay men is a significant motivation. When he meets another gay man is what he himself would be, tends to idealize and romanticize the relationship.
Another writer, Kaplan (1967) saw homosexuality as often rooted in dissatisfaction with own image.
Notes like:
It seems evident that some homosexuals, choose as sexual objects, people who have characteristics -physical, personal, or both- of which they themselves have a deficit… dissatisfaction with the self, the way one is … measure against internal standards of how one would like be ... may be one of the largest roots of some homosexual feelings and behaviors.
Kaplan continues:
Often the homosexual, seeks that quality, he feels he lacks himself, but he sees in others. Therefore, the union gives you, at least momentarily, a sense that now is complete or through identification with the other, that has the same quality.
Kaplan estimates that "the combination of the need for a model, a personal sense of inadequacy and an undifferentiated sexual motivation but powerful" can result in homosexuality. Describe the following model:
The person is dissatisfied in any way with the image itself. he see models are closer to their ego ideal , and engages in sexual intercourse ... The models are chosen as objects of identification and sense of identification or fantasy is increased, and significantly satisfied in sexual intercourse. In a sense, the homosexual has much in common with the narcissist, who has an affair with himself. The homosexual, however, is unable to love himself ... instead he loves his ego ideal (p. 358).
ITripp (1975) defined homosexual behavior as an attempt to "import" admired or desired qualities of the person of the same sex as you are attracted. Gottlieb (1977) also found examples of this motivation gay reparative customers:
Customer: Well, I think is a really original idea but physical contact with someone makes you feel more powerful, more attractive, more focused. There is a tendency to feed your narcissism ... I think the attraction to another person ... it becomes part of you and strengthens it (p. 39).
Book Excerpt:
(pages 34-35)
Reparative Therapy of Male Homosexuality,
by Joseph Nicolosi, Ph.D.
PD: Forgive me for the poor translation
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I'm an atheist.