Are you mature enough for a serious relashionship at 19?

Absolutely! I started a mature relationship with my boyfriend at 17. Now im almost 21 and were getting married! It really all depends on the person though. Try dating her for a while and if she turns out to be immature then end it. You never know unless you try.
 
You have to find it you feel that she's mature enough for you...Like when you're around her. Just because she's 19, it doesn't mean that she is mature enough.
 
Depends on the individual, but probably not really. A 19 yr old is barely a legal adult and doesn't really know yet who they are (as an adult individual) and hasn't had time to get moving down their adult life path (college and/or career) very far.

It's not that they are necessarily very immature (in general) but have so much to learn about themselves and adult life over the next few years, that a serious relationship is likely premature. If it is considered, let marriage wait a few years.

I married at 19 (and have had many friends who first married young) and the odds are against it working out as long as marriages between people who are a bit older, more mature, and more experienced in life and relationships.
 
it depends on how far in relationship and how well connected and how well you know each other. everyone moves at different speed there is no need to rush
 
No, a woman at 19 usually has not found herself and does not know what she wants or doesn't want in a partner. She hasn't even turned 21 yet, what will happen when she's 21 and wants to go bar hopping with friends and go to the clubs? My point is, there's still a lot she needs to experience. She hasn't graduated from college, hasn't experienced nightlife, doesn't have a serious job, and hasn't dated enough to know if you are right for her.
 
I'm 20 and i still hesitate at the idea of a serious relationship. I don't want a mediocre non-serious relationship either because i think i'm over that but i am not yet for a serious relationship. Not really. I may want to think i am ready for one and fool myself into thinking it but down to the point in reality i still think I'm too young. So i understand that you are 24 and i know that is an age where you are already thinking of commitment, she is nineteen she still doesn't even know the freedom of or responsibilities or the concept of a lot of things. I know this because i was in a relationship with someone who is 26 and he was ready for a lot of things that i was just not ready for, he had a career, i was still in college. The only way it would have worked for us would have been a long relationship. I wasn't ready for it. But really it all depends on the person. I am only sharing with you from my point of view. She may be ready to jump that hoop or you can give her time to get adjusted to it.
 
Yes, i know a couple whose 17 and 21. They are working out beautifully. But like the above answers have said, it depends on the connection, there's sometimes family issues, etc. as long as you resolved all the possible issues as far as you two being together, it should be fine.
 
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