Are you into dating as a sport, or do you pursue meaningful relationships?

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I like meaningful relationships, and I've been into them my whole life, but I'm thinking of making a switch to dating as a sport. All my friends are doing it, and they're all doing great. Which would you say is better?
 
Meaningful relationships. If I wanted people to hang out with/enjoy being with, that's what friends are for. I think of dating as trying to find someone whom I *want* a meaningful relationship with.
 
I don't think there's anything wrong with dating as a sport, as long as you're using it to find someone that you could potentially be in a relationship with.

I actually prefer it because it gives me a variety of experience dealing with different people and it's usually pretty casual and fun.

Good luck on deciding!
 
So if all of your friends decided to jump off a cliff you would do the same? Use your brain and continue to have meaningful relationships that will make you grow spiritually as a person. You will not get any satisfaction from dating as a sport...
 
for me love is meaningful..because I don't see love as a sport and plus love is not a game! people just think its a game but no its not..because many people get hurt and no one likes it
 
sport. definately. its not worth putting all of your emotional trust into each person you go out with. just have fun dating and when you find the right person, they'll see you for who you are.
 
When I was dating I date as a sport. I play the game to win, then game over. Once I find that person that is right for me, then I have won a meaningful relationship. Playing it as a sport helps to met new possible mates yet not be stuck with one that isn't right for you because you feel you have to. It also prevents hurt feelings.

If one only dates for a meaningful relationship, expectations can lead to disappointment in either party.
 
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