Jesse Rogers
New member
Are you that kind of guy who always gives to the girl and receives much less? You are not alone. There is a problem here. There is a problem with relationships in our generation. These days men have to be assholes to get women. Not overly assholes, but they have to have lots of confidence. The worst part of it is that when women are having problems with their asshole boyfriends, they come to us nice guys for advice.
Now a bit of my story. I'm a really nice honest person. I like this girl, but I get very angry and jealous when assholes come and flirt with her. Like she doesn't flirt back but she doesn't communicate that she gets annoyed of them, so I'm unsure as to whether she likes the attention or not. It just pissed me off, especially when the guy flirting with her knows you like her. Anyways, I get upset when she doesn't meet my needs when I'm always meeting hers. I want to be treated like the way I treat her, but it never seems like it will happen. I tell my brother or my mom about how angry I am at this girl at times and they say I'm insecure. Am I insecure? I'm insecure of her, but not myself. That's the funny thing. And us generation of nice guys are going to have a hard time explaining that to others. I know a lot of you people who are selfish will leave an immature comment, I'm prepared. But those of you who are on the giving side, please leave some feedback.
Now a bit of my story. I'm a really nice honest person. I like this girl, but I get very angry and jealous when assholes come and flirt with her. Like she doesn't flirt back but she doesn't communicate that she gets annoyed of them, so I'm unsure as to whether she likes the attention or not. It just pissed me off, especially when the guy flirting with her knows you like her. Anyways, I get upset when she doesn't meet my needs when I'm always meeting hers. I want to be treated like the way I treat her, but it never seems like it will happen. I tell my brother or my mom about how angry I am at this girl at times and they say I'm insecure. Am I insecure? I'm insecure of her, but not myself. That's the funny thing. And us generation of nice guys are going to have a hard time explaining that to others. I know a lot of you people who are selfish will leave an immature comment, I'm prepared. But those of you who are on the giving side, please leave some feedback.