I was talking to my boyfriend about sex earlier. We have differing views about it, it seems. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ArVd023jVGBSfVhYok5uEBvY_Nw4;_ylv=3?qid=20110122223958AA8EIM8 that's more on that. But anyway, I asked him why he really wants to have sex. And he said "I've dreamt about it, read about it, and wished for it for so long." um, well, we've only been going out for a few months, and never once in his reasons did he mention love.