Christianity? I've been dating this Christian girl for almost two weeks now, and she still won't go further than second base. She keeps telling me she won't have sex before marriage, and when I ask her why, she starts talking about Jesus and self-respect and blah blah blah. I've talked to a number of Christians, and they all corroborate what she says. Apparently pre-marital sex is a "sin." So my question is whether there are any ways around this BS.