Why should a religious person have to forcefully accept the gay lifestyle. The push for gay marriage is more to infiltrate the Church to change their views.
I don't think we are afraid of anything. We just don't think it's right and understand the slippery slope it will lead to.
I might remind you that a WHOLE BUNCH of people who are not "religious conservatives" are against gay marriage simply because they think marriage should be only between a man and a woman--President Obama is one of them. The majority of voters in the very liberal state of California is another example. Most of these people are a far cry from religious conservatives.