Are financial difficulties enough to create a situation that can lead to divorce for

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Financial problems do create a Divorce like situation.

Bur here it is not the case, ur mom says she hates life doesn't mean she wants a divorce.

As per the description , your father needs to understand that running away from the situation is not going to help.

Spending much may also be a case here, but the real problem is not spending or divorce but need of a regular flow of income/money. Ur father should try out to come out of the situation but taking ur family into consideration.

I think a better job for your father; and u along with your mother need to look for some kind of income to support your dad. Try out many options of working from home kind of work.
 
a couple? My mom broke down to me and my younger brother today about how she "hates her life" after she got off the phone with my dad today. They never have fought in their 20 years of marriage that I've noticed. She said he needs to get a real job to support us because right now we have apparently resorted to living off my grandma because we are scrounging on our own. My dad, according to my mom, is putting up a brick wall about it saying that we spend too much (which we don't, we are constantly cutting coupons etc). My mom said to my brother and I later that she doesn't hate her life because of us. She didn't mention anything about not hating it because of my dad though. It doesn't help that they are struggling to find the means to put me through college and eventually my brother. I'm concerned that all of the stress financially combined with my mom "hating her life" might result in divorce eventually? Please give me some insight. Please no rash remarks.
 
I think that at some point...we ALL feel that way, except, what most of us mean, is that we hate the way things are going, or certain things about our life.. Try not to worry too much, after all, they have been together 20 years! I am sure this is not the first time things have been hard, but they have always managed, and they will again...For the record, EVERYONE is having a tough time financially, right now. Chin up, and good luck.
 
Mum needs help just support her and dad and u will get through it. I dont know how old u are but give them a day out alone, for their time . Get a babysitter for yourself or if your old enough to take car of things alone do so.
Sometimes some fresh air and time to talk can do wonders to fix the financial problems.
 
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