are all ex`s whores?

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Right firstly I was going out with a girl for eleven months she was my best friend's cousin.
One month ago exactly she left me saying "Hope we can be friends I jus't don't feel the same anymore" and being foolish and still loving her, I tried being friends. Everytime I saw her or spoke to her I'd have to make all the conversation and effort. After 2 weeks of this I said "Just tell me if you don't want to be friends it's obvious you dont" and she went mental, we argued and after that my love for her went because i thought 'you're actually a tosser'

After the argument none of us spoke for about 3 week untill my best friends 18th birthday party: her cousin. So obviously she was there and she didn't speak to me all night and I stayed sober to keep my wits about me...Just to be on the safe side. *She on the other hand didn't*. She ended up snogging my second best friend who i was really mad at for a couple of days but I forgave him because he was really drunk and apologised to me.
At the party we had a fall out because of her and my friend, but the next morning she came to my house and apologised saying she was completely out of order and being friendly with me, but I asked for my presents back of her because we never gave each other our things back when we broke up, I really should have because all my presents was 3 times the cost of hers but anyway now shes told my best friend I was going to headbutt him at the party and she stopped me.
She also told everyone that I was drunk looking for a fight and also told people rumours about me. So now i'm not welcome in my best friends house anymore also my best friend now hates me and so do like 4 others because of the rumours about me, so now it's looking like i have no friends

Please dont abuse me id rather no-one answer im actualy feeling realy shit, anyone got any idea how i can get my friends back and proove that shes beein lying
 
Yes. Unless their not my ex. Then they're potential girlfriends.

My best advice is not to explain anything. "You're friends will not need it and your enemies will not listen anyway." Elbert Hubbard

If those friends are truly you're friends, they'll come back to you eventually. Give it time.
 
Wow...are you really worried about a girl who is your EX!?. Fuck the rumors, fuck the party, get FUCKING DRUNK and go on a rage, fuck your friends.

Of course she appears to be a whore to you now. Your not the one getting her attention.

And what the hell, might I ask is...snoggin?
 
Ignore your friends. I know it's easier said then done, but think of it this way...if they all believed what your ex said without at least having the courtesy to talk to you about it, then they weren't true friends in the first place.


Furthermore-you know that what your ex is saying is false. Who cares what anyone else believes? If someone asks your side-be blunt and honest. Do not talk trash about your ex, just say "I don't know why she said those things, but I'm not that bothered by them. I know I didn't do the things she said, and that's all that really matters" It will make you look like the bigger person, and she won't have any ammunition to fall back on because you didn't talk shit about her.
 
Chicks are crazy. They say one thing and they mean the other.

"be friends with me" really means "leave me alone"

My ex doesn't talk to me unless i make the effort, and even after that all she says is "lol" and "ok". I've decided to just not talk to her at all.
 
haha thanks, realy wishing i did get drunk and go on mindless rage

i couldnt care less about her but i was livid that it was ment to be one of my best friends, and that someone could be such a bollock juggler to lie like that

fuck it :D
 
Well if some girl spreading rumors was enough to get your "friends" to turn on you, that a probably a liberal amount of blow jobs from her to them, then I say Forget them ALL and move on. Bunch of assholes.
 
many fish in sea etc. life goes on.

who gives a fuck? your friends will come back in time. and if they can't realise the truth for themselves, then you really don't need them as friends.

also, your friend that made out with her is an asshole. sure, she's your ex, but friends should respect that you might still be felling a little raw about it. drunk or not is no excuse.

you shouldn't have asked for your presents back though. that kinda sucked.

anyway, get over it, listen to loud heavy metal, get laid.
 
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