connecting on Bluetooth is very tricky, First make sure that your bluetooth is ON, on each phone. now the way that i think it is the simplest is just having the 2 phones you want to pair right next to each other. now on each phone go to the bluetooth on the phone. Now on one of the phones you need to search for devices, and the other phone you need to choose the option that allows other people to find you. Then you should come with each others phones, you may need to type in a code, it MIGHT be 1234