Anyone ever discuss with their nmothers what would have happened if she'd...

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...known where you were? My mother said she would have kidnapped me. she said a 'closed adoption' was the only thing that would have kept her from me.

You?
 
If your mother was so selfish then why did she give you up in the first place?
What kind of woman gives a baby to better parents then kidnaps it? You should be very careful around her.
 
I agree with mimi. when you give a child up, you have zero right to initiate any type of contact. If the child seeks you out is one thing, because that means the child WANTS to know you. Otherwise, birth mothers should just leave them be.
 
Mimi- her mother wasn't given a choice. So, yeah, I don't blame her for wanting to go and "kidnap" her back if that is what it took. As for your "better parents" remark....adoptive parents are not "better parents". That is fueling the huge myth that women who surrender children are women unfit to raise children.

to answer the Q:
I know where my daughter's adoptive parents live (they don't know I know, bwahahaha). I have done nothing. As angry as I am with her a-parents and as much as I miss her, I cannot take her from the only parents she knows. But she will know of me on her 18th birthday. Me and her big sis are sending her letters with pictures.
 
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