anybody on here every done wife swapping(swinging i think they call it)?

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found out a friend of mine is dead keen on it, ,and him and his wife have been doing it for over a year ,,bit shocked when i found out ,,just wondered what peoples thoughts were on it ,,and if there are any people on here that have done it ,,,,
 
you have to be super careful. Its complicated. You just dont go out and "swing" with another couple or another female. Usually most couples have been together for a very long time and have a really good communication between each other. Also, if the female partner is bisexual or reallly likes women sexually, its much easier to do "swapping" or any kind of out of the ordinary sexual activity. I truly think that its a bad idea. Ive known couples who did this sort of thing and none of them lasted. They either had an affair with that other person or the "swinging" got out of hand. It doesnt work out in the end. Trust me on this one. Yeah its great at first but in the end, the relationship deteriorates. Its just not acceptable. Marriage is sacred and its about "love" and "trust". Going beyond these boundaries creates a whole new ball game about marriage especially if you have kids. Also, you can still catch herpes and other STD's even wearing a condom. I would be scared.

Many people do have these tendencies to carryout their fantasies sexually with other couples or singles butin the end its not worth it. I know a guy who lost his wife to another woman! She divorced him and went with the other woman. In fact, i know several men who lost thier wife to another woman believe it or not. I also know men who cheat on their wives all the time and their wife swings with them and everything.

I wouldnt do it or attempt it unless your spouse was absolutely secure about herself, with you, and you both have an open communication and have been together for along time.

It can ruin your rleationship. Ive seen this happen more in the end.
 
This question just made me think... Why doesn't anyone ever call it husband swapping?

Things that make you go hmmmmmm
 
Never have, never will. My intimate life belongs only to my husband and myself. I won't share him with anyone else and neither will he.
 
Hey,

90 percent of the people here will say 'NO' as you open yourself to a ton of mysery if it goes wrong. After all the other lady may look fine but the other guy pumping away at yours can be more than a guy can take. And wifes aren't any more forgiving of some other woman under their guy.

A place to look for alternate views is wifelovers.com There people have done it and do tell the good and the bad. Plus then have a discussion section where you can ask questions

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