any wifes feel alone with in-laws in another country?

[Tiger's Mama]

I am a wife and a mother to new born baby and i have my husband and his family here but i still feel so alone, im tired trying to fit in, lately we've been not doing so great, cuz i feel they've disrespected me or left me out and now i miss my family so much and i've been crying lately. i need some wordings...

 

[Kit Kat Kaboom]

Well, I'm a gf in a different country.

I used to feel alone and dependent on my boyfriend for everything because I didn't have any personal bonds with anyone in the country...including friends/family.

The best way to get over loneliness is by creating your OWN circle of friends...perferably female.
Once you have your own support network you will feel more independent and not be so bothered by what your in-laws think of you.

Try to find some type of women's organization where you are or some type of club...
perhaps an exercise class meant for new mothers and their babies?
or an English speaking club?
or even a book club?

Reach out to new people.