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sweetiepie
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i'm 16 and i complain a lot. it's not that i'm a negative person, it's more that i'm very awkward in social situations, so i use whining as my default. i really want to end this habit. any tips?
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whatnowwwww
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pinch your nostrils and count backward from 100 and jump off a chair while someone slams a door. That usually does it.
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Stage is love<3
Guest
Go to a childrens hospital and sit with children who have aids and then try and complain about your life.
If you still can, you have no heart. Im sry but that's true.
If you still can, you have no heart. Im sry but that's true.
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redryan123
Guest
I would tell the person your weird and leave
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Trix Is My Kryptonite
Guest
Look at life from an optimistic perspective. It helps.
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ALB91
Guest
I stop whining right away when I think about how many people have it worse than I do. It really makes me shut up.
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Montreal Jay
Guest
tell your friends to hit you every time you start whining
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SeRioUsLY!!?!
Guest
talk to antonius abt it
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captn_carrot
Guest
Yes, go work a job where people are less fortunate than you.
Visit the elderly in a retirement home.
Go clean cages at the local animal shelter.
Work a week or a summer with an Easter Seals camp, like Camp ASCCA.
Or even go do mission work for a couple weeks.
What the problem is, is that your have become so accustomed
to the good life, that all you find left to do is complain. You need to see that not everyone, even in America, is as fortunate as you. ANd then be THANKFUL for the things and life you have.
Visit the elderly in a retirement home.
Go clean cages at the local animal shelter.
Work a week or a summer with an Easter Seals camp, like Camp ASCCA.
Or even go do mission work for a couple weeks.
What the problem is, is that your have become so accustomed
to the good life, that all you find left to do is complain. You need to see that not everyone, even in America, is as fortunate as you. ANd then be THANKFUL for the things and life you have.
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snuggle_frog
Guest
Try to be positive, hear what you are going to say in your head before you blurt it out . I do this and I think about peoples reactions before I say things.
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PENWESTERN
Guest
It is easy to monitor it. When you start complaining just stop and listen instead. Count your blessings.
No one will miss your whining and soon you will be happier because you are only talking about positive things.
No one will miss your whining and soon you will be happier because you are only talking about positive things.
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jessica_girl_77
Guest
relax, masturbate more, and just be chill
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megan
Guest
Close your mouth, choose your words more carefully.
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Stacey W
Guest
Try to catch yourself when you begin to whine. If you catch yourself, simply take a step back, take a deep breath and clear your mind - Come up with something more positive to say or don't say anything at all.
Also, try changing your tone of voice from whiny to cheerful!
Also, try changing your tone of voice from whiny to cheerful!
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alimac
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you should see the glass half-full instead of half-empty. Find the good things in life and you will feel better about everything. It will make you a better person.
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What?!
Guest
Have someone randomly tape record it while you are doing it & then play it back & force yourself to listen to it.
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What?!
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Have someone randomly tape record it while you are doing it & then play it back & force yourself to listen to it.
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cerol3
Guest
Look at your whining as karma. The more you whine, bad will happen to you. The less you whine, good things will come your way. Now stop whining, I dare you.