I have to agree with a few posters here in regards to the terminology used. I wouldn’t call most users here anti-feminist if they don’t subscribe to feminist ideology. That would be the same as saying anyone who doesn’t believe in White supremacy is not proud of being White or is Anti-White.
I personally am not a feminist, but I know people who are. I’ve held some interesting conversations with some and have found points in their arguments that I both agree and disagree with. Which is one of the reasons why I chose not to be a feminist. Because if I join a group or subscribe to their beliefs than I must support their cause whole heartily. If not, it would make me look like a hypocrite. And as stated by another user, I don’t agree with the extremist who hid behind the feminist badge, as a means of spreading their personal misandry. Women are no more superior to men than men are to women, and our rights has more importance than that of a mans.
Now I do believe that we’re created equally (which in my experience is the belief of the few feminist that I know personally). One’s sex doesn’t make them any better or worse than someone who’s the opposite. And I think it’s safe to say that there are a few male users here who feel the same. I think many of them agree that they prefer a woman who’s loyal and trustworthy. Who’s not afraid to be their wife, yet not afraid to stand at their side as their partner. She’s their ‘backbone’ and emotional support in times of need. They crave a woman that doesn’t mind ‘dressing up’ and looking nice from time to time, but will throw on a pair of jeans and their teams T-shirts to watch a football game.
Men want an equal balance in the woman they chose (the same as we look for in our men) we want someone who’s physically and mentally strong, but is not afraid to show us he cares through compassion. They want the same, a woman who’s ‘womanly’ or demonstrates feminine characteristics, but is still self-sufficient and not to emotionally dependant.