Chris Thoensen
New member
OK, I asked a question earlier tonight, and one person kind of figured me out. So, here is another question on going all of the way. I prefer mutual stimulation and often stop before going all of the way. Sex has been painful before. I am not well endowed in length but I am in width. I have lost relationships because I have been told that it hurts. I do my best to connect emotionally, and I love taking time to touch gently and sensually until both of us are ready. When I am touched the reaction is often of surprise and amusement. Penetration is not always pleasurable for the other person and I have been told to pull out before because of that. When I meet someone and choose to be intimate with them it is because I like them and have strong attraction for who they are. I go for who I am attractted to. Often, it is with someone who she and I don't "fit" together very well. I have looked at penis reduction surgery, but that really isn't much of a choice for guys in this way. It is almost a joke asking about this because no one really takes you serious. Sometimes, the response is quite the opposite and people think I am crazy. I refuse to even take public showers at the gym because of this. It is almost the same as a woman with very large breasts and gets all the stares at her chest than her face. But, this is worse because breasts don't normally cause pain during sex. Anyway... good luck figuring this one out lol.
Thank you for the feedback, and yes I do go slow. I will try more lube and don't mind using that at all. It would be nice to be able to actually make love like normal people do. I would do almost anything to be able to do that.
Thank you for the feedback, and yes I do go slow. I will try more lube and don't mind using that at all. It would be nice to be able to actually make love like normal people do. I would do almost anything to be able to do that.