Im not going to argue there. Certain shows are popular for a reason (Like Cowboy Bebop), but if you have certain interest and they clash with whatever people are gullible to like, then i see a problem. I like CB and Akira, and i was a beginning watcher of DBZ back in the day, there is absolutly nothing wrong with those series, but you dont wanna stay to just a few series, yet to me, you dont wanna go balistic watching everything people say. Thats my balance, i like and watch what people like and watch when it was on, but stay away from the long long list of "MUST SEE BECAUSE ITS AWESOME" senerio i hear way way to much. Azumanga was a good lesson on an overhyped anime that was in way to many AMV Hell movies. Lesson learned.
This will make me sound like switching sides, but you might like Evangelion. I mean, i like it to a certain extent (mostly because i was interested in it for a while before i watched it), but being an "over rated series", it deserves ( to me) at least one view of the series and movies. And you wont break my heart if you think its retarded.
Thats most of the reason why i like what i like, i do some reaserch and look around about it, and if it catches my interest, ill look into it. I was into watching Bubblegum Crisis even before i ever saw it, just from what i researched online at the time, and it really caught my interest. Now, im a huge fanboy (dare i say) of the universe.
I see your point, but that works the opposite too. If you watch CB, but dont get little refrences like that, but when you watch a movie that CB refrences too, then you can say "oh wow, CB took this movie or that scene in that episode, thats pretty cool". Since CB, ive seen most if not all of the little refrences in that anime on movies, tv shows, music, culture, sci fi, and more over the years. And, if you do some research (once again, research is your best friend in life, i cannot stress that enough), you might be curious in what movie or song Cowboy Bebop references too.
I hope i was able to shed some insight on this somemore, and to make sure your not bashful with anime. You will be surprised just how much is out there, the world is at your fingertips, literally...