Angry parent sports/life?

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Denis

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I'm a high schooler who plays sports and has a father who always verbally abuses me and my mom if I have a bad game . He not only does this for sports he also does this if I forget to do something or don't do something the way he likes it. He treats me with no respect. Does anyone have any suggestions?
 
maybe he regrets not doing the things he wanted to do when he was your age. most of the time our parent get angry and it comes out different times. if he is abusive then you and your mom need to leave because the verbal will turn physical if you don't talk to someone now.
 
Just avoid him. My best guess is that he was a disappointment to his father or his father disappointed him and he wants to be better than that. Maybe he also regretted not being good at sports in high school or regretted not being better. Trust me, I've got a dad that does the same thing to my brother, and all I can tell you is that you can't rely on sports to bring you and your dad together. You can't always have perfect games and he needs to accept that. Don't be hard on yourself. Eventually you'll get to go to college or move out, and he won't be a problem. Just hold on. Good luck! Hope this helps!
 
I had the same problem. I stood up to my dad and told him "Stop please! I don't want to be treated this way dad! I am not trying to be mean or hurtful but I don't think you need to treat us this way. I mean it hurts. Please dad. Please."
 
I had the same problem. I stood up to my dad and told him "Stop please! I don't want to be treated this way dad! I am not trying to be mean or hurtful but I don't think you need to treat us this way. I mean it hurts. Please dad. Please."
 
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