so i like this guy and a lot of my friends know and when we were hanging out all together one day, my friend (who refers to this guy as her brother and also used to go out with him) decided to call him to tell him i like him while i was in the other room. the phone was on speaker so that the other people there could chime in, but that also meant that i could hear the conversation. it went a little like this:
Friend- I know someone who likes you...
Guy-(after guessing a few people and my friend giving him some clues, he guesses me)
Friend- oooh ur good! do you like her?
Guy- ya sure... i could tell she liked me (this part is especially funny cuz ya i did flirt with him, but did he give any kind of response?? no! i thought he was just clueless and couldn't see the flirting... but then he also likes me and he wouldn't flirt back? gawd that is just so annoying!)
Friend- really? you should ask her out!
Guy- ok. i will after spring break.
Now, it's spring break right now and i'm pondering whether i want him to ask me out or not. i mean, sure i like him, but i don't even have his number! my friend says he's gonna get my number and then ask me out the next day. i think it's all so close together! and we barely know each other, which some say is best, but i don't think so! i think i should know a lot about the guy ur dating! and does he REALLY want to ask me out? or is he just gonna do it cuz my friend told him to? and if he does ask me out, i think it'll be super awkward because
a) i've never had a BF before
b) we barely know each other
and
c) i have no idea if he actually likes me
all of this in mind.... i have no idea of what to do. it's spring break and i'm going out of town so it's not like i'd be able to see him, and i don't have his number so i wouldn't be able to text him, and he doesn't want my friend to give him my number cuz he wants to ask for it and i don't have his email and i don't have a facebook where i could IM with him! ahhh! i dont know what to do...
oh and another thing... i'm not sure i like him a ton anymore...
Friend- I know someone who likes you...
Guy-(after guessing a few people and my friend giving him some clues, he guesses me)
Friend- oooh ur good! do you like her?
Guy- ya sure... i could tell she liked me (this part is especially funny cuz ya i did flirt with him, but did he give any kind of response?? no! i thought he was just clueless and couldn't see the flirting... but then he also likes me and he wouldn't flirt back? gawd that is just so annoying!)
Friend- really? you should ask her out!
Guy- ok. i will after spring break.
Now, it's spring break right now and i'm pondering whether i want him to ask me out or not. i mean, sure i like him, but i don't even have his number! my friend says he's gonna get my number and then ask me out the next day. i think it's all so close together! and we barely know each other, which some say is best, but i don't think so! i think i should know a lot about the guy ur dating! and does he REALLY want to ask me out? or is he just gonna do it cuz my friend told him to? and if he does ask me out, i think it'll be super awkward because
a) i've never had a BF before
b) we barely know each other
and
c) i have no idea if he actually likes me
all of this in mind.... i have no idea of what to do. it's spring break and i'm going out of town so it's not like i'd be able to see him, and i don't have his number so i wouldn't be able to text him, and he doesn't want my friend to give him my number cuz he wants to ask for it and i don't have his email and i don't have a facebook where i could IM with him! ahhh! i dont know what to do...
oh and another thing... i'm not sure i like him a ton anymore...