The deal is that we broke up a few weeks ago... I haven't directly spoken to him since. He hurt me a lot, and I've heard a lot of things since but he punched one of my best friends in the face (a girl), broke her nose and he's been charged with assault. I wasn't there but I know he was on something. I broke up with him straight away because I just find that sort of thing disgusting and unacceptable. I sent him one harsh message, but that's it, I couldn't even talk to him then. I have so much I want to say to him but I don't really want him to know that it's affected me as much as it has. I'm just not sure if it will help or hinder my situation.