American decides to have baby and marry illegal(mexican) and now complains of it?

John Murdock

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alright check this out, just speaking about this again gets my nerves up but I need to express this so I feel like I am not some nut job.

This girl I used to date, well I broke it off a while back for many irrational reasons but lets get back to this, she will come to me for questions every once in a while so...

She is American citizen, white and her boyfriend is a illegal mexican that speaks no english, no paperwork on anything yet drives a car and after they were together for 6 months decide to get married and have a baby, actually planned to have a baby, she is 20. now like they been together a year had the baby now, she breaks up with him and has not told me why cause it is bad, so idk I don't care. she ask me how do I collect money or get him back <---- pretty much this question didn't even hit me I was so shocked by the whole story how you could marry an illegal and have a baby put me in disbelief after such short time too. and she teaches the baby no english what so ever, talks to him in spanish only, Im like wtf, a long story but I was arguing with her about all this stuff and now she thinks I am some kind of crazy racist/crazy person cause I got so mad after hearing what she had said to me, mad meaning remarking all the comments with like wtf explain this to me deeper, I got to keep hearing this and saying you are so irrational, you don't see anything wrong here.

Do any of you find this a little bit weird, not so normal...
Nah, I don't have feelings for her, I want nothing with all that unstable baggage, and yea I do see something wrong with anyone that doesn't work a stable job and is going to school still to decide to have a baby when you only know someone for 6 months that is pure irrational.

I just don't get people, I know I handle the situation wrong, I just come back with attacking comments but it is because they are true and I will not be emotional and fall in and say it is alright.
 
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