My sister in law is about a month pregnant. Her and my brother already started talking about baptising the baby and my brother chose me as godmother. Now, two weeks later, my brother called up my mom and told her that after a night of fighting, they are going to choose her sister to be the godmother. She feels as if it is not fair because I never tried to get close to her, but in my opinion she has no personality, i talk to her but never hang out with her alone. But her sister and her brother never try to reach out to my brother. I am really hurt by this.. If it helps, her brother, sister, and myself are all the same age.