Am I right to be mad? I am a cheerleader, and we're going to a college campus for...

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...camp this summer...? My best friend (we'll call her K) and I have roomed together since we met in 8th grade and we looked forward to doing it again this year. We talked about it and planned around it not long ago, and now she's suddenly changed her mind.
'K' smokes occasionally, and she befriended a girl (K) that smokes regularly... and I'm not talking about cigarettes. We eventually started talking and hanging out less and less (not because of the smoking, but because we have no classes together), and I was excited about camp because that's when we usually 'reunite.'
Well, there was a meeting yesterday and another girl asked me if I would be her roommate, but I told her 'K' and I were already roommates. The awkward "oh..." she replied with compelled me to ask 'K' about it. She said she decided to room with 'C' instead.

This has really hurt me.
I feel betrayed... like I was just tossed aside without a second thought.
I would've never done this to anybody, especially not her.
So, my questions is:

Am I right to be angry at her? I'm not really showing it, but I'm just really frustrated.

I would just 'talk to her,' but she would take it the wrong way no matter how I presented it to her..

I just need some outside opinions, so thanks!


Oh, and I'm sorry this is so long. :/
 
Yes you have the right to be upset about the situation... it sounds like you two are beginning to drift. Honestly you say she will take it the wrong way but the way things seem to be going now whats left to lose right? I would confront her about the situation and let her know whats running through your head and remember a real friend woudn't just ditch such an important friendship that easily if it was important to her! So talk to her let me know how things go!
Best of luck!
Dolly
 
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