am I in a emotional abusive relashionship?

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Hisamazingwife

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I think you need to stay away from this man, and away from any more relationships until you can tell the signs by yourself, because sometimes, you might not have time to talk to anyone before you need to make a decision as to wether you stay with this person, or leave him for good.

Yes, grabbing your wrist, name calling, put downs, neglect, disrespect, cruelty and emotional tear down- ( he'll say something just to watch you get upset) are not only ABUSE, but they are control issues and he's got a problem where-in he feels he needs to dominate, control and tortue you.

Your not the problem. Taking your meds helps you handle your condition, not suceed at a relationship that is slowly making you crazy

get out girl!

This man is sick and he doesn't love you.. or like you.
 
Abusive men eventually abuse women in every way I mean it may start out emotional abuse, mental, sexual and physical. You should try to get out now he shouldn't be saying any of those things to you what a jerk you deserve someone who will worship you like the goddess you are.
 
I married a guy like that too! I divorced him two years ago!

He doesn't realize what he's doing. Get marriage counseling so that he'll wake up and see the damage that his behavior is causing. If he won't agree to counseling, it's time for you to go!
 
im married, my spouse calls me names (acting like he is kidding around) and tells me to shut up, and ignores me. and Seems to enjoy getting mad at me or pissing me off. (i have some mental problems, and he told me i would be alot happier if i took my meds. so I started taking them again and now he is being a jerk.) i just dont get it.. If this is a emotional abusive relashionship, What should I do??? also he never compliments me, but he will say when a girl is hot or something along those lines and lost total respect for me. and doesnt appreciate me. I dont know the signs of a emotional abusive relashionship. and also could it get worse. like physical abuse. When he upsets me and I tell him I am leaving. he starts crying and pulls me back in and I fall for it, He then tells me that he will change.. and blah blah now we are back to where we started. I dont understand any of it. UGH!! any advise is appreciated. thanks

*Also, one time at walmart, We were agueing about money and I put it in my purse and then he grabbed my wrist really tight.and told me to give it back. (is this a sign)
he already said he wont go to counceling, He doesnt believe in it. he believes im the one that needs the help.
 
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