we go out to the bar? ? we've been together for 12 months. maybe im ol' fashioned but it seems rude, and what am i to expect is going on when she's out with her friends!
i don't think she should be dancing with some random guys now that she has a nice boyfriend.
no offense to your girlfriend, but i think she's a bit insensitive.
i don't think telling her about this kind of stuff would be a good option because she might feel a bit suffocated, being protected and all. still, you must find a way to let your feelings get through her, if you don't wanna die of thinking about it.