girls ? he has sex on first date a lot? AM MOVING TO A NEW CITY FOR WORK
and friends in 7 weeks
I have been good friends online/the phone with a guy in that city for over 2 years.
Our first date was actually 2 years ago !
He was still caught up in a bitter heartbreak over his exfiancee leaving him 10 months before
So we stayed friends because the distance also seemed to make dating hard
We went on a 2nd date that summer
again had a great time (only kissed)
but again things didnt solidify
we stayed friends though online/phone
6 months later he found out his ex was getting married to the guy she cheated on him with while engaged ! he then told me he actually had had a casual girlfriend when he and i went out the last time.
I was upset and said it was a lot of drama
He said he had been sad and the girl wasnt a serious love and it was only our 2nd date
he then broke up with her and started asking me out again
I told him I was seeing someone else
so we again stayed friends long distance
i broke up with the new guy and he started asking me out again.
but i still wanted him to prove he was serious.
So i again stayed friend but I myself met a new man, had a bf for 6 months.
LDR friend got very jealous and told me we should be seriously dating (great- nice timing)
well I got a great job offer in a another city and the boyfriend I had became very selfish and told me not to take the other job even though it will may me 45 k MORE a year.
so we broke up
went on a great date with LDR guy 4 weeks ago
we made out a bit, again nothing serious and he was respectful of me.
we've talked 4-5 times a week since then.
well here's the big fat bombshells.
I believe drunk words are sober thoughts.
he and I had a very long 3 hour phonecall and he was drinking tequila...
2 things came out
1. He said that he doesnt date much but when he does he usually sleeps with the girls on the first date.
i said i hoped he was kidding
he said no it just seems to happen and that usually its first date
i then joked that i will take him to get tested as std clinic. he laughed.
he said oh well that its been easy for him so thats what happened.
i then said well i never do that unless im in an exclusive relationship
he replied yes he knows that.
2. we were flirting and talking about kissing hugging. he then made a 'joke' that maybe he would 'smack me around a bit'
i said oh wel he had better never touch my face.
he said oh
anyway these two things he said really bother me
he has been such a good friend and acts great in person.
Am I being TOO judgmental ? Dump him cause he's been a SLUT ?
jokes about smacking me around in sex play ?
and friends in 7 weeks
I have been good friends online/the phone with a guy in that city for over 2 years.
Our first date was actually 2 years ago !
He was still caught up in a bitter heartbreak over his exfiancee leaving him 10 months before
So we stayed friends because the distance also seemed to make dating hard
We went on a 2nd date that summer
again had a great time (only kissed)
but again things didnt solidify
we stayed friends though online/phone
6 months later he found out his ex was getting married to the guy she cheated on him with while engaged ! he then told me he actually had had a casual girlfriend when he and i went out the last time.
I was upset and said it was a lot of drama
He said he had been sad and the girl wasnt a serious love and it was only our 2nd date
he then broke up with her and started asking me out again
I told him I was seeing someone else
so we again stayed friends long distance
i broke up with the new guy and he started asking me out again.
but i still wanted him to prove he was serious.
So i again stayed friend but I myself met a new man, had a bf for 6 months.
LDR friend got very jealous and told me we should be seriously dating (great- nice timing)
well I got a great job offer in a another city and the boyfriend I had became very selfish and told me not to take the other job even though it will may me 45 k MORE a year.
so we broke up
went on a great date with LDR guy 4 weeks ago
we made out a bit, again nothing serious and he was respectful of me.
we've talked 4-5 times a week since then.
well here's the big fat bombshells.
I believe drunk words are sober thoughts.
he and I had a very long 3 hour phonecall and he was drinking tequila...
2 things came out
1. He said that he doesnt date much but when he does he usually sleeps with the girls on the first date.
i said i hoped he was kidding
he said no it just seems to happen and that usually its first date
i then joked that i will take him to get tested as std clinic. he laughed.
he said oh well that its been easy for him so thats what happened.
i then said well i never do that unless im in an exclusive relationship
he replied yes he knows that.
2. we were flirting and talking about kissing hugging. he then made a 'joke' that maybe he would 'smack me around a bit'
i said oh wel he had better never touch my face.
he said oh
anyway these two things he said really bother me
he has been such a good friend and acts great in person.
Am I being TOO judgmental ? Dump him cause he's been a SLUT ?
jokes about smacking me around in sex play ?