Am I being bitchy or justified? Dating this guy for 3 months and his lack of manners

beachlover

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drives me crazy.? At first he agreed with everything and was mostly respectful, but now he passes gas at the table, chews with his mouth open, eats sticky or greasy food with his hand and uses my computer at the same time, complains about my kids and dog. The most annoying thing he does is talks to me in baby talk almost constantly. He says Elvis talked to Priscilla with baby talk. He also never gives me money towards food or utilities although he practically lived here for 2 weeks straight. When we have sex he yells really loudly "oh shit, oh f ck!" although my neighbors and daughter can hear him. He thought I was rude in asking him to be more respectful of them. He wants me to visit him at his apartment but he has no furniture except a desk and chair and a bed. His apt. is crappy and dirty. He says material things don't matter to him, but he sure enjoys my well equipped home and big screen TV, etc. Now he tells me I'm too bitchy and am pushing him away. Am I being unreasonable to ask him to have better manners and respect? He says he is old-fashioned and the man should be in charge but everything that we use is mine, including my car. He never offers gas money to me although I always drive as his car is crap. He wants to drive to be the man, but my insurance doesn't cover him. Am I wrong to feel the way I do about these things?
 
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