...im a VIRGIN...Why?? =[? I am 20 years old, I have fooled around & done stuff with guys before but never actually had sex....i am still technically a virgin, i always have guys who like me, flirt with me, ask me out, etc....until they find out im a virgin. then they completley stop and never contact me anymore =/ Why is this? Am I ever going to find a guy who will actually stick around at this point?