...for someone wanting to chat? almost every day i when i sign on to messenger, i get an unsolicited notification for someone wanting to chat with me. they are not in my contacts ever. how do i get this to stop and where/how are they getting my messenger address. this happens every day and is getting to the point where i am about to get rid of yahoo all-together. all my profile entries are set to where no one can see my email address. so how are they getting it? please tell me because this is RIDICULOUS already!