ive known this guy for 7 months and weve become close friends in that time. i really like him but notice sometimes he says things which dont add up for example he owns 3 houses, has 60 k in savings and want to buy a 350 k house in london.
hes had a rough time and his wife left last year. ive probably done too much but i have suppported him constantly-got him presents to cheer him up and got him through his work assessments etc.
when we have breaks he doesnt ever intiate buying me a coffee etc so to avoid the embarrassment i pay always so last night we were talking about stuff and i stupidly asked him in a joke way what he would think of me as a girlfriend and he replied that i would suffocate him. i was mortified and fled quickly saying bye not our usual goodbye.
so now today he calls and wants to see how im feeling wtf ?
am i just a loser-all ive tried to do is help him and ive ended up with egg on my face
hes had a rough time and his wife left last year. ive probably done too much but i have suppported him constantly-got him presents to cheer him up and got him through his work assessments etc.
when we have breaks he doesnt ever intiate buying me a coffee etc so to avoid the embarrassment i pay always so last night we were talking about stuff and i stupidly asked him in a joke way what he would think of me as a girlfriend and he replied that i would suffocate him. i was mortified and fled quickly saying bye not our usual goodbye.
so now today he calls and wants to see how im feeling wtf ?
am i just a loser-all ive tried to do is help him and ive ended up with egg on my face