all he wants is sex :\?

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Arta S

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Tell him to stop talking about sex so much. Seriously, you guys are in a relationship, you should be able to tell him ANYTHING.
 
im 16 and my boyfriend is also 16, but he is nearly 17 in the middle of october. i know we are legal (live in the uk) but we both lost our virginity to each other in the middle of july. we had been with each other for 4 and a half months by then. since we have had sex, all he seems to want is sex. we cant like go out to town, for a walk or to sit in each others houses like we used to. when we are trying to decide what to do on msn or by text or something he always is trying to insinuate sex, we have only had it 3 times but its pretty much most times he wants it. i suppose i know he still likes me, and isnt just using me for the sex. and i know 'it feels good for the guy' and tbh its quite good for the girl but just not getting constantly asked and everything. its kinda getting on my nerves. i still 'love' him (i put this is ' ' because i know never know the proper meaning of love) and dont want to break up with him. any ideas of what i can do?
thanks very much, xxxx
he isnt like really mean about it D: hes just like 'eh-hem, my bedroom, 6.30, bnb ;) xxxxx'
 
You've had sex only three times in more than two months and you don't understand why he'd like it more often than that? I think you need to find yourself a guy who's taken a vow of celibacy. Any normal guy would think you're holding out on him if it's only once or twice a month.
 
the less you get sex the more you want it. not the im suggesting that you just go have sex with him a lot to appease him but maybe that will help you understand. it really sucks for a guy. if you guys dont have sex or even do anything sexual very often maybe thats something you can do. the truth is a guy will begin to feel discomfort if he doesnt have some sexual experience with a women every 3-5 days or so. so maybe every two weeks or so you should do something with him even if its not sex, just to kind of keep him from being too intense about it? idk just a thought anyways.
 
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