argument with some1 ...help=(? its been about half-a-year since one of my best friends stole all the rest of my best friends(3), first i cried A LOT but then i have now got over it & m kindda fine now
[this is what had happened:
i had a small argument with one of my best friend, lets call her alice for now, she didn't talk to me for few days. she had always had an argument with someone each week and that week it was with me. i tried to talk to her about it but then she just swore at me, told me somethin that really hurt my fellings then she went off. my another best friend, lets call her stacy for now, ...me,stacy and alice were very close friends, we shared each and every secrets. that day me, stacy and my another bff, call her emma, were walkin home together, i was really upset on what alice told me: she had told me that i was '2 faced' and that i was just acting on being the 'nice girl' to show other people that alice was a bad friend. that day stacy and emma told me their biggest secrets: they told me that they always hated me(all 4 of them) because since i arrived to this place(i moved here about 2 years ago) they were jelous of me cuz i was so perfect: the perfect face, perfect personality, perfect family, perfect boyfriend;perfec studies, they didn't like the fact that every1 in scool and my neighbourhood liked me and that made then jelous and then they told me that i should leave the group and that they have chosen alice over me (emma is like mini-stacy, she does whatever stacy does or whatever she tells her to do]
since then i have lost all my best friends, broken up with my boyfriend and made some new friends
i sometimes still do talk with them(my ex-bffs; except alice, haven't talked to her from that last day). but they often talk to me only when they need me but i sometimes just ignore them
i noticed that nowadays i am ok for a month or so...then i have mood swings: sometimes i m hyper,sometimes sad or angry, etc
thats cuz my ex-bffs are getting on my nerves nowadays. whenever i m with my new friends then cut-in in between and starts talkin to them. or whenever i am laughin with my mates, they just laugh louder (they do that to annoy people, i know it cuz i was with them before) they are doing it again: trying to steal my friends. nowadays whenever i see emma i feel like twisting her are, whenever i see alice i feel like punching her, whenever i see stacy i feel like kicking her. i really hate them now. plus, they have told my sectets to other people, and started rumers about me... they really piss me off
is that the reason i am having my mood swings??
last night i had a massive argument with my mum oversomething(had another massive arguments with herbefore as well usually after i have started having my moodswings)
she was angry at me cuz my room had not been tidied-up since monday, i was really tired and very sleepy yesterday and just wanted to go to sleep. but she just keep on nagging. i don't know wht had gotten into me but i just threw my phone at her. it hit her feet(its sollen now) she made my tidy-up my beedroom in the middle of the night AND she has now taken my phone away and isn't returning it; she also remainded me that i had lost my bffs and by boyfrien: and the fact that they hate me now. then i just cried the whole night and just felt like jumping off the window. i was really hurt from what my own mum had told my. i think she is also tired of me from having arguments with her every day
i don't know what's happening to me. eversince i lost my bffs i m havin my mood swings its really upsetting. my perfect life is not so perfect anymore.i have arguments with my mum every time. last time i was grounded, next she didn't let my watch tv for 3 weeks, then she didn't give my my week's pocket money, then she took my make-up bag,then she took my i-pod.....and so on(have got them back now). yesterday she took my phone,don't know when i'm getting it back.
amd just really tired of it now... my mood-swings..
can somebody help please...am i getting mood swings because of that event?!
HELP!!
[this is what had happened:
i had a small argument with one of my best friend, lets call her alice for now, she didn't talk to me for few days. she had always had an argument with someone each week and that week it was with me. i tried to talk to her about it but then she just swore at me, told me somethin that really hurt my fellings then she went off. my another best friend, lets call her stacy for now, ...me,stacy and alice were very close friends, we shared each and every secrets. that day me, stacy and my another bff, call her emma, were walkin home together, i was really upset on what alice told me: she had told me that i was '2 faced' and that i was just acting on being the 'nice girl' to show other people that alice was a bad friend. that day stacy and emma told me their biggest secrets: they told me that they always hated me(all 4 of them) because since i arrived to this place(i moved here about 2 years ago) they were jelous of me cuz i was so perfect: the perfect face, perfect personality, perfect family, perfect boyfriend;perfec studies, they didn't like the fact that every1 in scool and my neighbourhood liked me and that made then jelous and then they told me that i should leave the group and that they have chosen alice over me (emma is like mini-stacy, she does whatever stacy does or whatever she tells her to do]
since then i have lost all my best friends, broken up with my boyfriend and made some new friends
i sometimes still do talk with them(my ex-bffs; except alice, haven't talked to her from that last day). but they often talk to me only when they need me but i sometimes just ignore them
i noticed that nowadays i am ok for a month or so...then i have mood swings: sometimes i m hyper,sometimes sad or angry, etc
thats cuz my ex-bffs are getting on my nerves nowadays. whenever i m with my new friends then cut-in in between and starts talkin to them. or whenever i am laughin with my mates, they just laugh louder (they do that to annoy people, i know it cuz i was with them before) they are doing it again: trying to steal my friends. nowadays whenever i see emma i feel like twisting her are, whenever i see alice i feel like punching her, whenever i see stacy i feel like kicking her. i really hate them now. plus, they have told my sectets to other people, and started rumers about me... they really piss me off
is that the reason i am having my mood swings??
last night i had a massive argument with my mum oversomething(had another massive arguments with herbefore as well usually after i have started having my moodswings)
she was angry at me cuz my room had not been tidied-up since monday, i was really tired and very sleepy yesterday and just wanted to go to sleep. but she just keep on nagging. i don't know wht had gotten into me but i just threw my phone at her. it hit her feet(its sollen now) she made my tidy-up my beedroom in the middle of the night AND she has now taken my phone away and isn't returning it; she also remainded me that i had lost my bffs and by boyfrien: and the fact that they hate me now. then i just cried the whole night and just felt like jumping off the window. i was really hurt from what my own mum had told my. i think she is also tired of me from having arguments with her every day
i don't know what's happening to me. eversince i lost my bffs i m havin my mood swings its really upsetting. my perfect life is not so perfect anymore.i have arguments with my mum every time. last time i was grounded, next she didn't let my watch tv for 3 weeks, then she didn't give my my week's pocket money, then she took my make-up bag,then she took my i-pod.....and so on(have got them back now). yesterday she took my phone,don't know when i'm getting it back.
amd just really tired of it now... my mood-swings..
can somebody help please...am i getting mood swings because of that event?!
HELP!!